Solutions to problems

How come it seems easy to fix other people's problems, but when it comes to your own they are entirely too complex to fathom an answer. My sister and I look at my brother's relationship with his girlfriend Sam who is a complete bitch. We see that she is a fat, lazy, nagging, self centered bitch. He doesn't necessarily see that. My brother has a heart of gold and a wonderful personality. He is one of the most intelligent people I know and very witty. He has a good job and supports himself. He should have no problem meeting a nice woman who can treat him the way he deserves. We, Meagan and I, think that JJ needs to ditch this bitch. JJ, on the other hand, has the same idea, but might be afraid to act on it. As far as I know he has not had a relationship that has lasted quite this long. It is hard to break up with someone who you love. Sometimes it just has to be done. Like Meagan who had to get rid of Jon. Jon was a nice guy, but he was a doosh who was never going to amount to anything. You have to look out for your best interest. Sam is definately a nagger. She complains when JJ wants to go out with his friends...you just can't do that. He needs to do the "right thing" and dump her. I dislike her very much and have from the beginning. She is a lazy slob. She has only gotten fatter since the day I met her. She blames it on her back problems. I am sore every day from going to the gym, but I still do it because it needs to be done. My new work-out partner has lost 9 pounds in the last month from doing my workout. I am proud of her. All it takes is a little time and effort. JJ- get rid of her...you deserve better.